This book is designed to help you to take care of yourself, to be psychologist of yourself, to convince you of the need of deeper personal approach to your growth and maturity. It will show you that Stick is punishment or rebuke, Carrot is bait or reward. It will show you how — to be aware of human darkness, to control you negative emotions, to reach possible goals, to acquire cooperation, to awake efforts, to open new ways of living and to be a winner.